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Ambiguous Loss: Why “Not Knowing” Hurts More Than Goodbye

This article explains ambiguous loss and why the absence of certainty can be more painful than a clear goodbye. By naming this unique form of grief, Matt highlights pathways toward healing that do not depend on closure.  Read More…

How Losing Everything Helped One Family Discover What Really Matters

This article explores how one family’s experience after a house fire illustrates post-traumatic growth and the rediscovery of what truly matters. By honoring grief while recognizing resilience, Matt highlights how meaning and connection can endure after loss.  Read More…

Man’s Search for Meaning in Modern Crises

This article explores how Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning offers guidance for navigating modern crises. By reframing suffering through purpose, choice, and values, the author highlights how meaning can sustain resilience without denying pain.  Read More…

Why Helpers Have the Hardest Time Asking for Help

This article explores why helpers often struggle to ask for support and how counseling can be reframed as a practical tool for sustainability rather than a sign of weakness. By aligning counseling with the values of competence, readiness, and growth, helpers can access support that truly fits their world.  Read More…

Why We’re Fascinated by True Crime

This piece explores why true crime captivates so many people and how repeated exposure can shape anxiety, hypervigilance, and relationship fears. By examining cultural patterns rather than individual cases, Matt highlights the importance of awareness, boundaries, and nervous system regulation.  Read More…