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Ambiguous Loss: Why “Not Knowing” Hurts More Than Goodbye

This article explains ambiguous loss and why the absence of certainty can be more painful than a clear goodbye. By naming this unique form of grief, Matt highlights pathways toward healing that do not depend on closure.  Read More…

The Day Everything Changed: What a Patient’s Sudden Death Taught Me About Grief, Humanity, and Showing Up

In this reflective piece, therapist and former paramedic Matt Short shares the story of a sudden death that transformed his understanding of grief, presence, and human connection. The experience reveals how meaning-making and compassionate support help us navigate the hardest moments of life.  Read More…

Grief Beyond Loss: Journaling as a Path Through Non-Death Grief

Grief isn’t always about death, and healing doesn’t always start with talking. See how Matt explores how journaling can support people through non-death grief, from life transitions to losses that go unseen. With the TEAR framework as a guide, this post offers space for reflection, honesty, and moving forward at your own pace.    Read More…